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Posted By Clore Social Leadership,
19 November 2019
Updated: 08 December 2020
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Victoria Muir is one of our Forces in Mind Trust supported fellows who completed the Clore Fellowship Programme in 2017. We had the pleasure of interviewing her to learn more about what the experience has meant for her and her leadership development journey in the context of the Armed Forces Charities sector.
Looking back, what are the 3 most important skills you learned? How do you implement these lessons into your organisation?
One of the most important aspects for me was learning from the other fellows. Often, from my experience within the Military Charitable sector, we work very closely with each other but not always across the social sector as a whole so it was extremely beneficial for me to learn how people from different sectors worked. By completing the Clore Fellowship alongside having the validation of FiMT’s support, I have gained confidence in my abilities and learnt new skills. I certainly feel that where I might not have put my voice forward before, I am much happier to add it to the debate.
""If there’s something that is challenging me now, I will go back to the principles I learned through the programme, step back and reflect."
Did the course help you to become a better leader, and if so, how?
Definitely and one of the areas that I found most helpful was going through processes that I had not been through or was possibly not aware of previously. For instance, I had never taken part in, and was a little sceptical of the Action Learning Sets. I quickly learnt that the process allowed me to really think through situations or challenges and learn that often, I did in fact have the answers, I just needed to take time to challenge myself, reflect and find them. We don’t often get the time to step away from everyday life and everyday work and to be able to take that time to learn more about ourselves and move forward. There were things about myself I may not have realised without going through the Clore process. If there’s something that is challenging me now, I will go back to the principles that I learned through the programme, step back and reflect. This has been particularly valuable when starting a new role.
What would you say are the key leadership issues the Military and Service Charity sector is facing? Can better leadership development address these issues?
The Military sector can often appear to be quite small and a number of people will often move directly from a Service career into working for a Military charity. Whilst it is important to have that knowledge and understanding, it can sometimes mean that organisations don’t always attract people from the wider social sector with the different skills and knowledge that this brings. Having access to and learning from people working in different specialities is certainly something I and my colleagues have found to be beneficial. I think that sharing information and skills both from within the military sector across the wider social sector and vice versa is something that is vital for development. It can often be very easy to stay working within the Military sector which can mean that new skills don’t always come in. Looking at my own experience, once I started working for a Military Charity over ten years ago, rather than moving to a different area of the social sector, I stayed within the military circle albeit it in different areas of delivery.
"Take every opportunity you can to learn from as wide an area of the sector and be completely open-minded about learning new things."
What advice would you give others starting their leadership journey?
Take every opportunity you can to learn from as wide an area of the sector as possible and be completely open-minded about learning new things. I can say this from my own experience as the initial thought of an Action Learning Set was terrifying but it turned out to be one of the most valuable parts of my Clore experience. Sometimes we have preconceptions and it’s important to overcome them and see where that takes us. I know we all have an image of where we want to get to in our careers or leadership journeys and how we think we are going to get there, but, looking at my own journey, I have taken so many unconnected turns. If I look back at myself aged 18 and think about my plans for the future and where I wanted to be compared to where I am now, I would not change anything. If I had followed my original plan rather than taking every opportunity that came my way, I doubt that I would have learnt as much as I have and I certainly wouldn’t be the person that I am today. I think it is important to stay open-minded, and if that takes you off on a tangent, be brave and go where it leads you.
What would you have retrospectively changed in your leadership journey?
I am actually not sure if I would have changed anything. My original plan years ago was to go to University and study Law. For whatever reason, I decided not to and trained at Norland College to be a nursery nurse. This led to working all around the World, followed by volunteering in Bosnia which led to entering the charitable sector and working with the Armed Forces. If I had followed my initial plan, I doubt very much that I would be where I am now. I may not have always made the right career decisions, but I can honestly say that I have learnt from them all and they have brought me to where I am now.
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Posted By Clore Social Leadership,
25 March 2019
Updated: 23 October 2020
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How often do we take the time to think and understand the beliefs and assumptions limiting us from moving forward? Or to hear our own thinking and get a step closer to turning thought into action? And what role does coaching play in helping us get there? Coaching provides the opportunity to create the time and space to do so, says Dr Jeremy Hinks, a leadership development coach for Find a Coach, our new coach-matching service.
Jeremy’s journey into coaching sprung from his experience as a University tutor when he saw how positively people respond to being trusted and empowered. Witnessing the number of people needing assistance in their middle and senior management roles, he decided to pursue a coaching career to help develop the leaders of tomorrow. He has 36 years experience of using a coaching approach in a leadership setting and has a wealth of experience from coaching a wide range of people working with the social and voluntary, public, and private sectors.
"Coaching is about creating the time and space to think and hear your own thinking."
For Jeremy, coaching is about creating the time and space for you to think and to hear your own thinking. “It’s about having that thinking heard by someone you can trust, and having your thinking and feelings being supported and challenged without judgement,” says Jeremy. “It’s about you seeing new perspectives and then deciding on your own plan to make things happen. My coaching process implies embracing trust, support, challenges, and change - not necessarily in a linear sequence, yet always in alignment with my coachee’s agenda.
“The power of coaching, for someone experiencing it, lies in the opportunity it offers to have the time and space to challenge assumptions and beliefs, especially if they limit them in moving forward, or stop them from building even more effectively from a position of strength. Hearing our thinking is a major step in developing awareness and consciously thinking about habits that might not have been evaluated for years. The responsibility for action, however, always lies with the coachee. Breaking the dependency on background, environment, and challenging a deterministic belief is hugely powerful. “
"Coaching will play a part in the journey from hierarchy and team membership to one of a truer version of collective leadership."
Through coaching, leaders can bring others along on a lifelong journey of learning of development. "Coaching creates leaders who create leaders,” says Jeremy. “It has the capacity to create solution-finding communities whose capability goes way beyond the sum of its parts. It can break the mould related to a model of power and influence that encourages isolation in thinking and fear of failure. It has the potential to deliver lasting benefits rather than quick fixes, as it is an intervention that takes a ’whole of life’ view. With the future of work being one where success depends on relationship building and on shared endeavour, coaching can play a major part in supporting wellbeing as well as being a positive influence on the mental health of the coachee.”
Witnessing the transformative effects of coaching on his clients, says Jeremy, is extremely rewarding. “The longevity of coaching benefits is often ignored. What is satisfying is bumping into clients months or years after coaching and hearing them talk about how they are still practicing the use of the ‘thinking and emotional muscles’ that they had discovered during their coaching. A successful coaching programme can lead to benefits that have a positive influence over a considerable period of time, even a lifetime.”
Considering taking your next step on your leadership journey through coaching? We asked Jeremy to summarise how to approach and what you can expect from a coaching relationship in which you play a full part:
- Enjoy the time and space to allocate to yourself, without any distraction
- Appreciate what it is like to be listened to, without judgement
- Expect to think and feel in equal measure and to reflect on meaning and significance – it can be hard work, but so fulfilling
- Expect to get a clearer understanding of what makes you tick and how that influences your environment
- The value of being supported while exploring territory that will need courage and commitment
- The strength to change habit that are not serving your purpose
- An appreciation of the power of choice
- …and all throughout increasing awareness and personal responsibility for turning thought to meaningful action.
Dr Jeremy Hinks is an accredited professional coach with the International Coach Federation, a member of the Association of Coaching and a founding member and coach with Know You More. He is passionate about people development, and is a coach for our Find a Coach pilot initiative.

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